Your Step Dad

Today we had the funeral mass for Steve's brother, Chris.  Alex, it was so nice that you came to the funeral!  It's been a long day, but things are generally OK knowing that Chris is at peace now.

Steve has been so involved over the past couple years helping his brother (I won't elaborate), and now in making many arrangements which are necessary and significant when death comes.  Steve wrote a lovely tribute to Chris on NCFE, which you can read here.  And he gave the eulogy during the funeral. This is very difficult stuff, and I admire him for being such a strong person, so very thoughtful & eloquent, and above all a wonderful brother.

When talking about a friend, co-worker or family member, sometimes Steve says "He's a good man".   Well, we all know from living together that Steve absolutely fits that description himself.  And his role as a Step Dad is important to him.  He thinks about both of you a lot, is generous with his time and otherwise, and offers advice without drama.  I honestly believe he is the best parent to teenagers and young adults that I've ever known.  Here's a favorite picture of his, from our 2016 vacation in Florida - looking out at the NASA vehicle assembly building of the Kennedy Space Center.

We all are very lucky to have him in our lives, for many reasons.  Steve and I, with Aunt Pam especially, know that we're providing a stable foundation for your lives.  And showing you what it is to have loving family relationships.  Outside Rob B's and Joy A's offices, I've often looked at a tree poster with the quote below.  I hope that as you walk through life together as brothers, you will be true friends.

Family:  

Like branches in a tree, we all grow in different directions;

yet our roots remain as one.